Monday, February 8, 2010

Nothing But Confidence


Having confidence in everything we do is important. But, how do you gain confidence?

Having confidence begins with having a mind full of confident thoughts. A mind that is controlled by you, therefore believing only the things that will bring to you all the things you desire—and deserve.

Here are some tips for building self confidence…even in the most nerve racking situations.

Stand like you have confidence. Sit like you have confidence. Walk like you have confidence. Ignore your mind and simply concentrate on the physical attributes of confidence. If you maintain a confident stance long enough, your mind will certainly become convinced.

Forget everything you see on television and in magazines with regard to the perfect body image. You are a unique creation of God and perfect just as you are. Know your best attributes and play them off well in every situation.

Put your family and friends expectations of you out of your mind and follow your heart. People are all too quick to tell you how you should live your life when really it’s just an expression of their own shortcomings. Don't allow the shortcomings of others to affect your life negatively.

Be your own hero. Perform the short exercise of writing down all the attributes that you admire about yourself.

Get into the flow. Keep track of what motivates you and stay near those things.

Get started. Don't expect changes right away and have patience in knowing that it takes time be the person you wish to be. In the meantime, continue to keep a positive outlook and display your confidence for everyone to see.

5 comments:

  1. Im smiling on the outside eventually my mind is convinced and now im smiling on the inside too!! It's working!!!

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  2. Congrats on starting your blog Kuarzy!

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  3. I love this! I especially like the one about standing with confidence...it really does work :)

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